This is a topic that I think is overlooked often. Since Easter’s coming, we at the Church have had a number of brothers and sisters come back or enter the Church for the first time. It’s a wonderful experience for new converts, and I’m sure those you know have a strong sense of duty, responsibility, and connectivity with the faith. I’m personally a recent “revert” to the faith, attending a Southern Baptist college town church and fellowship for 2+ years in college. I must admit, these pitfalls that Jennifer Fulwiler depicts here are some of the most fundamental problems that reverts and converts face in coming to the Catholic Church.
I just wanted to add to the article my own experience of what to do about these pitfalls. In my own reversion, I found that the most essential thing to do is to be active and bold in your faith. This does not mean we should sign up for EVERY activity at our local parish and run around talking to every single person we meet about our faith for every conversation. But I do think that new converts tend to be passive in coming to the Church. This is understandably the case, given that it is usually their first time placing so much importance in their religious life. But it is no less imperative that we converts develop the habits of participation and community, as our service in church and the community is a part of the Christian virtue of Charity.
This is not only addressed to converts, but even more so, this is important for cradle Catholics to realize, too. Cradle Catholics tend to be too complacent and lax with their faith, being such a regular part of their lives, and it is often easy to forget that converts do not have that same familiarity with the faith. It is necessary that we keep our eyes and hearts open in receiving friends, families, and more importantly, strangers, into the loving embrace of the Church and show them our own love and heart in living our faith. This call to action also pushes us to realize that our faith requires more than simply coming to Mass on Sundays and helping out at church, but is a lifestyle supported and built through participation with fellow believers who we can grow and learn more about the faith with.
So, this is my little addition to what I read from this article, and that our faith is not something that is finished once we have crossed the Tiber, but is a continual process to the moment we die, a race we run and a battle we fight once we commit to begin. This journey is best done in fellowship and connection with other like minded brothers and sisters, and so I encourage each of us to develop our community with friends who are passionate for their faith. But more than this, it is the reunification of our relationship with God and the dance of love and life that we participate in with God. And so I look forward to the years to come, with all my new and long-time brothers and sisters! :D
-John